Today is 5/28.. A long while since honey and I came out to eat and walk around. Today, after work, I sped down to simtech. Honey is in a very beautiful white dress with a cute little blue brooch just below the supraclavicular fossa, which accentuates honey’s purity and grace. As usual, we go into a non-stop exchange of information regarding the day we just have had. I want to know everything that has transpired in honey’s life. As we were busy updating each other, we also managed to decide on going to Watami for dinner. Yup, that’s how efficient we are. ✌️We ordered 2 bowls of noodles as shown in the pictures below. It was as tasty as I remembered it to be when we were last here.

Honey wanted to attract the attention of the waitress by raising her hand. I gave her a high five! 😝

After dinner, we went to buy honey’s contact lens cleaning solution. Then, we searched for the pebble watch. Found it at challenger @ JEM. Not worth it at $249. So, we turned our attention to finding the present for my brother’s birthday. Didn’t manage to buy it, but have decided on the 🐂 wallet. Will go back to robinson’s and buy it.

As we were walking to 🐂 boutique outlet, there was this taiwanese wedding photo package promotor, who angered me by hinting that I am old! 😤

But that did nothing to my great mood because of the lovely time I had with honey. Mindful breathing. Honey reminded me. 😊

I love you honey! 😘 hereby i sign the peace treaty.

I love u darling, 共勉😘 here by I signed the peace treaty.

Honey 生病了。从上个星期六就生病了。好心疼。我门要真的注意我们的身心健康了。现在，我们就好好享受两人的互相陪伴。😘

Today, I have finished reading the book “Anger” by Thich Nhat Hanh. It manages to touch me at the most fundamental level, where I just seem to know that what Thich Nhat Hanh is trying to say in the book is true. I know that my seed of anger has been allowed to manifest on many occasions without the mindfulness energy to embrace and take care of it. I will do my best to practice the teachings inside the book, honey.

I am going to type the peace treaty from the book word by word here my dear, because i find the words meaningful, and also because I want to be mindful of each and every word as I type them.

Peace Treaty

In order that we may live long and happily together, in order that we may continually develop and deepen our love and understanding, we, the undersigned, vow to observe and practice the following:

I, the one who is angry, agree to:

1. Refrain from saying or doing anything that might cause further damage or escalate the anger.

2. Not suppress my anger.

3. Practice mindful breathing and go back to myself to take care of my anger.

4. Calmly, within 24hrs, tell the one who has made me angry about my anger and suffering, either verbally or by delivering a peace note.

5. Ask for an appointment later in the week, like Firday evening, either verbally, or by note, to discuss this matter more thoroughly.

6. Not say: “I am not angry, it’s okay, I am not suffering. There is nothing to be angry about.”

7. Look deeply into my daily life, while sitting, walking, lying down, working, and driving in order to see:

The ways that I myself, have been unskillful at times. How I have hurt the other person because of my own habit energy. How the strong seed of anger in me is the primary cause of my anger. How the other person is only the secondary cause. How the other person is only seeking relief from his or her suffering. That as long as the other person suffers, I cannot be truly happy.

8. Apologize immediately, without waiting for the Friday appointment, as soon as I recognise my unskillfulness and lack of mindfulness.

9. Postpone the friday meeting if I do not feel calm enough to meet with the other person.

I, the one who has made the other angry, agree to:

1. Respect the other person’s feelings, not ridicule him/her and allow enough time for him/her to calm down.

2. Not press for an immediate discussion.

3. Confirm the other person’s request for a meeting, either verbally or by note, and assure him or her that I will be there.

4. If I can apologise, do so right away and not wait until friday evening.

5. Practice mindful breathing and deep looking to see how:

I have seeds of anger and unkindness as well as the habit energy, which make the other person unhappy. I have mistakenly thought that making the other person suffer would relieve my own suffering. By making him/her suffer, I make myself suffer.

6. Apologize as soon as I realise my unskillfulness and lack of mindfulness, without making any attempt to justify myself and without waiting for the friday meeting.

Maung Zaw Win Min & Ge Hailin

5/19/2014

本来是决定去晨跑，然后吃早餐，Our plan changed this morning due to sudden thunderstorm ..
躺在暖暖的被窝里，听着雨水打在窗外，淅沥，淅沥，室内对比很安静，越发感觉平静，好一个慵懒的星期六早上:)
等一下和darling有个约会，期待中:) 古人曰：一日三审吾生，而我们定下了星期六为我们每星期一review的日子，一起improve和学习 😘 see my darling soon…

It was 5/8 (thur). Honey and me went to honey’s home to have dinner. After that, i was sitting down in front of tv and switching on my laptop, when honey asked me to go inside her room to work. Ge papa jumped out in my defence and stated that there should be rest time after dinner. But honey stood her ground. I was sandwiched.

I am sure you can guess which side i chose. Of course i chose to go into the room and work. You might call me 欺善怕恶，but if you know honey, you will understand my choice.

Inside the room, however, we decided to go watch movie. The amazing spiderman 2 has been screening in cinemas for 1 week now. We booked the tickets online for 9pm show at jcube.

After watching the show,
1) I feel that we should address people by their name, because it might just mean a lot to them.
2) I also feel that if you have spent your lifetime researching on a cure that both your son and you can use, you should do a proper passdown on what will not work and what might be dangerous to try. You shouldn’t just pass your son a small cube that only displays info if dropped onto your table. Who would have known?! Knowledge management is neglected everywhere.
3) Lastly, I feel that what is useful can be harmful as well. Just look at electric man.

Should have watched it in 3D! The effects would have been wonderful in 3D.

As for my honey’s key takeaways, you got to ask her. 😚

Tonight, we asked Chun Chun to koin us for dinner. We went to Pepper Lunch at JEM. 😊

Today (5/4 Sunday), after honey has attended Caiyun and Ding Yong wedding, we go for a run at botanical garden. 😊

Today is 3rd May 2014, 2 years since honey and I started this love journey. 🙂

On 5/2, honey and I worked in her office till late, after having dinner at NTU canteen. We had 牛肉拉面 and 卤猪脚. They were both yummy! Maybe because I am with honey. After dinner, honey had pear juice while I chose papaya banana juice.

On 5/3, we went to turf city’s pasarbella for the seafood paella and turkish sausage.. 👍

The bracelet and jigsaw puzzles are what I got for honey. Every day, every moment, we are creating a piece of the jigsaw, which will all then combine to form the happy blessed love life of 2 of us. The bracelet is simply to tell honey that my love for her is forever. Thank you honey for the amazing 2 years! Let’s continue to work on creating more special memories everyday.

And this is honey’s present for me. Yes, honey, all my memories will be of you and you alone. ❤️